I am having problem of waking up for fajr prayer. Is been a very long time since my
husband and i did not wake for fajr. we just pray it in the morning. i am a mother
of 3 young children, juggling work and mother and wife and my husband work in the
evening finishes at 1am. when night falls i am so tired after esha prayer i go
straight to bed. sometimes i struggle to wait for esha prayer.

i definitely need help and advice on how to do in order to wake up for fajr

BarakAllahu feek

Assalamu alaikum,

Skipping Fajr prayers is one of the characteristics of hypocrites. You should try
your level best to pray it on time and your husband must pray it on time and in the
masjid.

If you sleep after Isha and you take all means to wake up but fail to do so, Allah
will not hold you accountable as you have done all what you can to wake up.

Assim L. Alhakeem